Ok really if you see rhetoric like “examine why you don’t want to sleep with this person” as anything less than manipulative and rapacious, you need to step back.
People’s boundaries are not a debate club. Someone’s “no” is not the beginning of a political, intellectual, or interpersonal negotiation—it is the end; it is the final word, the only respectful response to which is acceptance.
my dad made a huge deal about going to see hercules tonight after we finished putting my new furniture together and I went to put my face on and when I came back he was asleep on the couch
good im cramping like hell i dont want to see a movie *slouches into compy chair*
hello 911 yes
yes i’ll hold
the notebook problem: you see a notebook. you want to buy the notebook. but you know you have like TEN OTHER NOTEBOOKS. most which are STILL EMPTY. you don’t need to notebook. you’re probably not gonna use the notebook anyway. what’s the point? DONT BUY THE NOTEBOOK. you buy the notebook.
I DIDNT KNOW THIS WAS SOMETHING OTHER PEOPLE STRUGGLED WITH FRICK,me,
I AM NOT ALONE
i have found my people *reaches hand out from under a pile of notebooks*